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Love when you have time

I always tell other people that whenever you're given an opportunity to be with someone, it's that you should always give it your best shot and love that person with all your heart. In this day and age where true, genuine second chances are rare, sometimes in life you are given only one shot. One chance to be with someone you love and how you make the most out of it is ultimately up to you. We never really know how long we'll remain in someone's life because just like how sea sons change and just like how leaves fall, people's feelings change over time as well. So while you are still together, take advantage of the time that's been given to you. Live in the moment and stop thinking about the future too much because what matters is right here, right now. Kiss each other as hard as you can. Take each other's hand and run away at the beach. Hug each other so damn tight while you still can. Let them know how you really feel about them because one day, y...

5 things to keep in mind for a relationship to last

1. Try new things together. This keeps things exciting by exploring new ideas as a couple and introducing something new into the relationship . 2. Always make time for each other no matter what. Both of you will have added responsibilities and priorities as time passes, but never ever forget to put each other on top of the priority list. 3. Don't break your partner's trust. Lying is what kills relationships because once a person's trust is broken, it will never be the same again. Always tell the truth to your partner even if you think it will hurt. It's better to be honest than to make her believe in your lies. 4. Make them feel wanted. You'll get used to each other especially after you've been together for a few years, but that doesn't mean you should stop treating your partner like they're not special anymore. Treat them like the first time you got together. Show them that they are still a huge part of your life. Don't be complacent and...

How to keep a man !!!!

1. Do not keep on repeating things that already happened in the past. He has learned from them. He has become mature. Don’t bring up issues in the past.  2. Surprise him. It is not only boys who need to have efforts to make the relationship work. Girls should do the same.  3. Understand him that he is not perfect. He gets tired. He gets stressed. He gets pissed off. He has lapses but he is trying his best.  4. Lower your pride as well. It is not always all the time that he needs to adjust with you. You do your part as well to make the relationship work.  5. Understand that boys will have time for their friends as well. Do not guard him or do not be too strict when he plans to go out with friends. Give him your trust and everything shall follow.  6. Ask him on how his day went. You can give him a massage and make him feel that it was just a bad day and it gets better.  7. Make sure that you are loyal to him and you are not playing with any oth...

5 Signs That You’re Meant To Be Together

It’s when you push each other to become better individuals. It’s when you become so selfless with one another that other people start calling you “crazy” and “weird”. It’s when you live in your own little world, your own safe haven, where both of you are safe and happy with one another. Love is a struggle in all aspects. It’s a struggle to attain, maintain, and move on from it should it ever end. Then again, it’s true when they say that nothing in this life that’s worth having ever comes easy. You have to be willing to work hard for what you want, and work even harder to keep it in your possession. For a lot of us in life, all we ever crave for is love. It’s not too difficult to see why. Love is essentially what makes our world go around. Love is what a lot of us stay alive for. Without the prospect of love, a lot of us would not want to go on living. Love is the driving force that binds all of humanity together, but yes, it can be a struggle to find. So how do you know if you’v...

IF YOU’RE IN LOVE, YOU NEED TO BE LOYAL

If you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn’t really have to act as if you were available. If you were truly in love with a person, you wouldn’t have to be shady with how you hold your phone while messaging someone. You wouldn’t want to have to hide your phones screen from your partner’s gaze because you know they wouldn’t like what they would end up reading. If you were truly in love with a person, you wouldn’t have to use codenames for the people on your contacts’ list. If you were truly in love with a person, you wouldn’t have to constantly be clearing out your message logs on a daily basis because you’re afraid someone might end up snooping around in places where they aren’t supposed to be looking. If you were truly in love with someone, your phone wouldn’t be ringing in the middle of the night; you wouldn’t have to rushing out of the room to make sure that your partner doesn’t hear your phone conversations. If you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn’t have to be ac...

If a man has these 9 qualities never let him go, scientists say

1. He’s smart While some of us are naturally brainier than others, a new study from the Hanken School of Economics in Finland suggests that the smarter the man, the less likely he is to be unfaithful. According to the research, more intelligent men are more likely to get married and stay married.  So if you’re worried your boyfriend might be too brainy for you, a) don’t be intimidated because intelligence isn’t everything, and b) know that you may have a guy who’s more likely to be faithful on your hands.  2. He makes you laugh Finding someone you can have a laugh with is crucial - even if everyone else rolls their eyes at his dad jokes, if they crack you up, that’s all that matters. And a study has shown that men are more likely to have “mating success” if they have a GSOH.  3. He actively supports your career A study found that husbands were a deciding factor in two-thirds of women’s decisions to quit their jobs, often because they thought it was t...

HOW TO AVOID SEXUAL COMPROMISE IN A RELATIONSHIP

I'm very much aware that they're many individuals out there who feel it's normal to have sexual relations in a relationship, and I'm likewise mindful that they're additionally individuals out there who need to respect God in their connections, individuals who will defer moment satisfaction since they cherish God and will comply with his oath. I've assembled a couple of aides that could enable you to keep up your sexual virtue in your relationship. Imagine a scenario in which you as of now bargained. Don't worry about it, this is for you as well. Ensure you're both in agreement: No other point will be applicable if your accomplice isn't on an indistinguishable page from you. You will be astounded the things you discover when you make inquiries. Try not to accept anything in a relationship. It isn't simply enough on the off chance that they're christian, do they truly cherish Jesus? Do they have an individual association with Him? ...

You Didn’t Really Love Them That Much

You didn’t love them as much as you loved the idea of them, and you certainly didn’t love them as much as you loved other things. Signs you didn’t — or don’t — love them that much: If your focus is the list of stuff you want to do with a significant other You always wanted “someone to travel with.” You always wanted to eat at that restaurant. You always wanted to try acroyoga, or take cute Christmas card photos, or snuggle. You fell for them because “you picked up on a few key traits and let your mind fill in all of the blanks.” They’re just a stand-in for the shit you want to do. It’s fine to want to do things with them — awesome! — but if your focus is their role in doing these things with you, it’s a bad sign. If you “just want someone to love” Or you just want a husband, spouse, or parent to your future children. This is the exact same point as above. If you don’t find joy in sharing the things they love Not every day, but  sometimes . If i...

Best Relationship Goals Quote

“You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed forever.” – #RelationshipGoals “Affection is when you see someone’s strengths; love is when you accept someone’s flaws.” – #RelationshipGoals “My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and the courage to accept the love in return.” –  #RelationshipGoals “Since the invention of the kiss, there have been only five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind.” –  #RelationshipGoals “We loved with a love that was more than love.” –  #relationshipgoals “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – #RelationshipGoals “You and I, it’s as though we have been taught to kiss in heaven and sent down to earth together, to see if we know what we were taught.” –  #RelationshipGoa...

Don’t be desperate for a guy

Don't be desperate for a guy to feel the same way about you. Don't be desperate for a guy to make 're showing him that you're the one that needs him and he doesn't have to need you. How do you expect him to respect you when you're always letting him walk all over you? How do you expect him to take you seriously when you're always allowing him to put you down? How do you expect him to admire you when you give him control over feelings? No guy is worth losing your self-worth for no matter how you feel about him, and you shouldn't be okay with yourself for that. Most importantly, don't be so desperate that you'd give a guy enough power over you to determine your happiness because your happiness is only yours to keep. If he can't see that you're worth it, then he ain't worth it and you should find comfort in knowing that you are worth it to someone else out there right now. Don't be desperate for a guy's love, especially the wrong...

The next time I fall inlove—

Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there until my last tear drop falls Not with the one who says he won't hurt me but with the one who will say sorry after hurting me Not with the one who says he will love me forever but with the one who will embrace lifetime with me Not with the one who promises to carry my burdens but with the one who will hold my hand and walk with me.  Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there unti...

This is the love I want to give someone.

I want to find the person who makes me feel like I found the piece of myself I never knew was missing. I want the nerves and all the good vibes associated with falling for someone new, and when I find that person I have so much love I want to give to him. I won't be hesitant, I won't try to be someone I'm not and I won't try to impress him. I'll just be me, because if he's the right person that will be enough. Once I find that person I want to give him all the love in my heart, despite any prior heartache I've felt. Because I want to give the right person everything I have in me, through the good and the bad. I'll love you with all my heart and make sure you know you're the only one I care about. I'll make you feel safe and secure around me, like when we're together the world can't touch us. I'll always keep your promises and won't wager your trust. I want you to know you can always count on me to be there. I can always promis...

This is how you love someone

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

What is Love !

When it comes to love, the goal should be to share the best parts of yourself with the person you have the best time with. Be with someone who you can actually laugh with and be silly around. Be with someone who wants to see you grow and develop as a person. Be with someone who will have your back when it's up against the wall. Be with someone who actually cares about you as a person. Someone who you can trust with your heart and not have to worry about them breaking you into  a million pieces. So many people forget the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place. A relationship should be a place that encourages peace and happiness. It should be a place that is free of judgment and allows you the freedom to be who you truly are. It should be a place where you can consistently count on someone's love. It should be your own personal safe haven.

To the girl who's reading this, 

Sometimes, you have to let people go because they're toxic for you. Sometimes, you have to let people go because they mean you no good. Sometimes, you have to let people go to sacrifice the temporary happiness that people will give you in order to chase an unconditional happiness that only you can provide for yourself. Sometimes, you have let people go because you 've forgotten what your worth is and you have to regain a sense of self. Sometimes, you have to let people go because you've lost your individuality and you need to search for your independence. Sometimes, you have to let people go because all they do is take from you and leave you feeling empty and uneasy. Sometimes, you have to let people go because while you're learning yourself again and seeking fulfillment, they're unapologetically draining you and holding you back from feeling whole. Sometimes, you have to let people go because there's no growth in staying where you got your heart broken. Sometim...

Appreciate Her Love

Don’t ever push a loyal girl to the point where she’ll no longer give a fuck about you.  Because it takes a lot for a girl to give a fuck about you so it’s kind of difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck when she’s invested so much of herself into someone. But keep in mind, just because it’s difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck, doesn’t mean it isn’t possible. Every girl has a limit on how  much she can take and most of the time, you can go over that limit and she’ll still love you too much to leave you, but if you push her far enough, then she’ll just drop you and completely cut you off and once that happens, it will be extremely hard for her to start caring again. So be careful how you treat her & don’t take those chances she gives you for granted. Read 40 best  Relationship Quotes  It isn’t easy for her to do it. She doesn’t want to leave you because she loves you with all of her heart, but it’s just gotten to the point where she cannot take it...

You have lost her !!!

And now that you've lost her, I hope you know what you've lost. I hope you know that she didn't choose to leave, because you're the one who held the door for her. I hope you know that she didn't want to be distant, because you're the one who pushed her away. I hope you know that she didn't ask for arguments, because you're the one who picked fights. I hope you know that she didn't like being jealo us, because you're the one who acknowledged other girls. I hope you know that she didn't mean to give up on you, because you're the one who couldn't change for the better. I hope you know that she didn't let you go on her own, because you're the one who gave her every reason to quit holding on. I hope you know that she didn't plan on moving on from you, because you're the one who showed her there's no happiness in staying. I hope you know that she didn't force herself to stop loving you, because you're the one ...

This Time, I’m Letting Go

I’m letting go of every butterfly that I felt every time your name popped up on my phone.  I’m letting go of every sensation that I felt every time I heard your voice. I’m letting go of these multitude of feelings that only you can stir within me because they are overwhelming. I’m letting go of every hope in my soul. I’m letting go of that blind faith. I’m letting go of  the idea of us. I’m letting go of every daydream. I’m letting go of the future that I envisioned with you. I’m letting go of every song that reminds me of you. I’m letting go of every composed poem that starts and ends with you. I’m letting go of the tear-stained photographs. I’m letting go of the memories. I’m letting go of the timid smiles and soft hellos. I’m letting go the sweet good mornings and good nights. I’m letting go every stealthy glances. I’m letting go of the shy moments. I’m letting go of every 11:11 wish. I’m letting go of these never-ending thoughts at 2 AM. I’m letting go of the sleeples...

Love her even when she is hard to love

Always go after her. Even when she's mad. Even when she's sad. Even when she hates your freaking guts. Even when she wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Even when she wants her space. Even when she's irritated with you. Even when she doesn't want to talk. Even when she doesn't want to see you. Even when she pushes you away. Even when she has thoughts about leaving you. Even when she feels lik e punching you in the face. Even when she feels like kicking you in the balls. Even when she's being a bitch. Even when she's being distant. Even when she's being stubborn. Even when she's being heartless. She just needs to see that you are willing to be with her when she's at her worst, that you are able to handle her bad side, that you are strong enough to not give up on her. Fi you want to read more articles like this read Relationship Goals 

Before you walk into my life

Before you walk into my life, you need to know something about me. You need to know that I'm a very insecure person and I get too emotional at times. I am everything but perfect. I have difficulty trusting people because of how I've been treated in the past. I tend to overthink and that's because I care. I care too much because I don't wanna lose the people that mean so much to me. I cry over the  simplest of things but that's because I genuinely appreciate even the slightest bit of effort. What I'm trying to say is I carry this baggage within me and I just want you to understand that there will be times that it'll be very difficult to stick with me. But God I hope that you stay because I'm the kind of person who will remain honest, loyal, and faithful no matter what happens. Loving you with all my heart is my way of saying thank you for sticking with me despite how hard it may be. For reading more articles like this visit  Relationship Goals   If you w...