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Best Relationship Goals Quote

“You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed forever.” – #RelationshipGoals “Affection is when you see someone’s strengths; love is when you accept someone’s flaws.” – #RelationshipGoals “My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and the courage to accept the love in return.” –  #RelationshipGoals “Since the invention of the kiss, there have been only five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind.” –  #RelationshipGoals “We loved with a love that was more than love.” –  #relationshipgoals “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – #RelationshipGoals “You and I, it’s as though we have been taught to kiss in heaven and sent down to earth together, to see if we know what we were taught.” –  #RelationshipGoa...

Don’t be desperate for a guy

Don't be desperate for a guy to feel the same way about you. Don't be desperate for a guy to make 're showing him that you're the one that needs him and he doesn't have to need you. How do you expect him to respect you when you're always letting him walk all over you? How do you expect him to take you seriously when you're always allowing him to put you down? How do you expect him to admire you when you give him control over feelings? No guy is worth losing your self-worth for no matter how you feel about him, and you shouldn't be okay with yourself for that. Most importantly, don't be so desperate that you'd give a guy enough power over you to determine your happiness because your happiness is only yours to keep. If he can't see that you're worth it, then he ain't worth it and you should find comfort in knowing that you are worth it to someone else out there right now. Don't be desperate for a guy's love, especially the wrong...

This is how you love someone

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

What is Love !

When it comes to love, the goal should be to share the best parts of yourself with the person you have the best time with. Be with someone who you can actually laugh with and be silly around. Be with someone who wants to see you grow and develop as a person. Be with someone who will have your back when it's up against the wall. Be with someone who actually cares about you as a person. Someone who you can trust with your heart and not have to worry about them breaking you into  a million pieces. So many people forget the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place. A relationship should be a place that encourages peace and happiness. It should be a place that is free of judgment and allows you the freedom to be who you truly are. It should be a place where you can consistently count on someone's love. It should be your own personal safe haven.

To the girl who's reading this, 

Sometimes, you have to let people go because they're toxic for you. Sometimes, you have to let people go because they mean you no good. Sometimes, you have to let people go to sacrifice the temporary happiness that people will give you in order to chase an unconditional happiness that only you can provide for yourself. Sometimes, you have let people go because you 've forgotten what your worth is and you have to regain a sense of self. Sometimes, you have to let people go because you've lost your individuality and you need to search for your independence. Sometimes, you have to let people go because all they do is take from you and leave you feeling empty and uneasy. Sometimes, you have to let people go because while you're learning yourself again and seeking fulfillment, they're unapologetically draining you and holding you back from feeling whole. Sometimes, you have to let people go because there's no growth in staying where you got your heart broken. Sometim...

Appreciate Her Love

Don’t ever push a loyal girl to the point where she’ll no longer give a fuck about you.  Because it takes a lot for a girl to give a fuck about you so it’s kind of difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck when she’s invested so much of herself into someone. But keep in mind, just because it’s difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck, doesn’t mean it isn’t possible. Every girl has a limit on how  much she can take and most of the time, you can go over that limit and she’ll still love you too much to leave you, but if you push her far enough, then she’ll just drop you and completely cut you off and once that happens, it will be extremely hard for her to start caring again. So be careful how you treat her & don’t take those chances she gives you for granted. Read 40 best  Relationship Quotes  It isn’t easy for her to do it. She doesn’t want to leave you because she loves you with all of her heart, but it’s just gotten to the point where she cannot take it...

You have lost her !!!

And now that you've lost her, I hope you know what you've lost. I hope you know that she didn't choose to leave, because you're the one who held the door for her. I hope you know that she didn't want to be distant, because you're the one who pushed her away. I hope you know that she didn't ask for arguments, because you're the one who picked fights. I hope you know that she didn't like being jealo us, because you're the one who acknowledged other girls. I hope you know that she didn't mean to give up on you, because you're the one who couldn't change for the better. I hope you know that she didn't let you go on her own, because you're the one who gave her every reason to quit holding on. I hope you know that she didn't plan on moving on from you, because you're the one who showed her there's no happiness in staying. I hope you know that she didn't force herself to stop loving you, because you're the one ...

This Time, I’m Letting Go

I’m letting go of every butterfly that I felt every time your name popped up on my phone.  I’m letting go of every sensation that I felt every time I heard your voice. I’m letting go of these multitude of feelings that only you can stir within me because they are overwhelming. I’m letting go of every hope in my soul. I’m letting go of that blind faith. I’m letting go of  the idea of us. I’m letting go of every daydream. I’m letting go of the future that I envisioned with you. I’m letting go of every song that reminds me of you. I’m letting go of every composed poem that starts and ends with you. I’m letting go of the tear-stained photographs. I’m letting go of the memories. I’m letting go of the timid smiles and soft hellos. I’m letting go the sweet good mornings and good nights. I’m letting go every stealthy glances. I’m letting go of the shy moments. I’m letting go of every 11:11 wish. I’m letting go of these never-ending thoughts at 2 AM. I’m letting go of the sleeples...

Love her even when she is hard to love

Always go after her. Even when she's mad. Even when she's sad. Even when she hates your freaking guts. Even when she wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Even when she wants her space. Even when she's irritated with you. Even when she doesn't want to talk. Even when she doesn't want to see you. Even when she pushes you away. Even when she has thoughts about leaving you. Even when she feels lik e punching you in the face. Even when she feels like kicking you in the balls. Even when she's being a bitch. Even when she's being distant. Even when she's being stubborn. Even when she's being heartless. She just needs to see that you are willing to be with her when she's at her worst, that you are able to handle her bad side, that you are strong enough to not give up on her. Fi you want to read more articles like this read Relationship Goals 

Before you walk into my life

Before you walk into my life, you need to know something about me. You need to know that I'm a very insecure person and I get too emotional at times. I am everything but perfect. I have difficulty trusting people because of how I've been treated in the past. I tend to overthink and that's because I care. I care too much because I don't wanna lose the people that mean so much to me. I cry over the  simplest of things but that's because I genuinely appreciate even the slightest bit of effort. What I'm trying to say is I carry this baggage within me and I just want you to understand that there will be times that it'll be very difficult to stick with me. But God I hope that you stay because I'm the kind of person who will remain honest, loyal, and faithful no matter what happens. Loving you with all my heart is my way of saying thank you for sticking with me despite how hard it may be. For reading more articles like this visit  Relationship Goals   If you w...

Love will always find its way back to you

You may be wondering why things didn’t workout though you know that you did everything. You may be thinking that it’s all your fault though you just did what you knew was right. You may be puzzled by how things went so uncontrollable. You keep on asking yourself what you have done wrong. You keep on overthinking, you keep on blaming yourself. With all the confusions, I want to tell you that there  is nothing wrong with you because you did that in the name of love. There’s nothing wrong with you. You just have to accept the fact that some things are not meant to last forever. Some things are just temporary. Some people are meant to come to your life but not meant to stay forever. Some people are meant to meet but not meant to be together. That’s true but it should not be the reason why you will be afraid to fall in love again and again. It’s ok to love so much. So much that you allow yourself to break your own rules. That’s normal. Even the most powerful people can be slaves ...

If you’re thinking about leaving her for another girl, consider this..

Who else is going to love you like she does? Who else is going to deal with you like she can? Who else is going to understand you like she could? Who else is going to go out of her way for you like she would? Who else is going to be there for you like she is? Who else is going to take care of you like she has? Who else is goi ng to forgive you for mistakes most girls would leave you for? Who else is going to get over arguments you cause that most girls would hold a grudge with you for? Who else is going to be able to look past the flaws that would drive most girls away? Who else is going to be able to handle the temper you have which would scare most girls off to the point where they’d want nothing to do with you? Who else is going to be able to tolerate how much of an asshole you can be when you want to be? Who else is going to be able to accept the kind of lifestyle you choose to live? Who else is going to be as loyal as she is towards you in a generation of open  relationshi...

She's a girl

She's a girl. Sometimes, she makes a big deal out of little situations. Sometimes, she overreacts to the little things. Sometimes, she assumes the worst when things aren't well for her. Sometimes, she gets more emotional than she should be getting. Sometimes, she's more sensitive to certain things than she's supposed to be. Sometimes, she's gullible enough to believe everything she hears. Sometime s, she's too stubborn to think that she's the one who's wrong. Sometimes, she's too hormonal to think logically and with reason. Sometimes, she's nice enough to tolerate being treated like shit. Sometimes, she's heartless enough to not be considerate of anyone else's feelings. Sometimes, she forgives those who don't deserve it. Sometimes, she pushes people who are good to her away. Sometimes, she starts liking people who aren't good for her. Yeah, she's complicated. How she is at times doesn't make sense. But, she's a girl...

Invest yourself in someone who can see what you're worth instead.

If someone wants to talk to you, they will. But it just sucks when they don't, especially when it's the person you want to talk to.  Have you ever had that moment where you've sent someone a text message and then you just leave it on that screen, waiting for the text bubbles to pop up as you wait for their reply, but it doesn't happen? Or have you ever had a moment where you just kept checking yo ur phone to see if they responded yet, but they still haven't and eventually, you see that your message was "Read at ______" and it kind of makes you sad? Despite that, you're still hopeful you'll hear back from them because they might be busy, so you wait a little longer. At this point, you're checking to see if they're currently active on Facebook or not, if they've posted a picture of IG of what they're doing, or if they've updated their Snapchat showing everyone their whereabouts. Then the worst part happens, where you see they'...

The sad reality of long term relationships

After the years have passed, it all disappears. This is what some couples fail to see. After how many years, the spark will go. The reasons why you loved the other person will be unknown. The butterflies in your stomach will soon disappear. You will forget why you liked that person in the first place. You’ll start to see all the wrong and the ugly you chose to look blindly in your beginnings. Now, going home to each other’s arms is not as exciting to look forward to as before. Cuddling and those exchange of sweet words become rare and all the fightings will take over. Sex will become less and less. You’ll be shocked that one day, those nights and hours you spend in sex will now be spent in silence and arguments. You’d rather cover your partner up rather than take their clothes off. Appreciation goes less and less too. You have to accept that. This is the sad reality of  long term relationships . You become familiar with each other rather than staying “ in love ” with...

Love comes in many forms

It's not always about the sweet kisses or romantic gestures. It's about how you treat each other when times are the toughest that will determine how long your relationship will last. Do you raise your voices when you two are at an argument? Does he curse and disrespect you when you do something wrong? It's these things that will tear both of you apart. Pay attention to your partner on how they treat you when you have fights and when things aren't going well. Because love isn't always rainbows and butterflies. If you and your partner can treat each other right and with respect during arguments, you'll be able to withstand the challenges that break most relationships.

Relationships are harder now

Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting instead of actually talking. Phone calls become arguments, feelings became subliminal messages, and sex became so easy. The word "love" is so often thrown out there and used out of context, insecurities became a way of thinking, jealousy became a habit, and trust is hard to come by in this day and age. There's a missing link betwe en couples nowadays and that is having a real, genuine communication where both parties understand each other's wants and needs. They have respect for each other's boundaries and have their own limitations. They back up their words with their actions and never make promises they can't keep. It's especially hard to find that love today because so many people are looking for temporary fixes but aren't willing to commit but despite that, never allow yourself to follow that trend. Save yourself from heartbreak and don't fall in love too quickly as soon some...

It’s alright to miss him

It’s alright to miss him and normal to feel the way you’re feeling. After all, you did spend a fair amount of time together. There were happy times and maybe for a period of time, he tried his hardest to give you what you wanted. Maybe there was a time; you thought you would be happy with him. But you have to accept that whatever went down between you and him, it should stay in the past where it  belongs. If you persist on reaching out to him, you’ll only delay your own healing process and reopen your old wounds. If you refuse to let go of the past, you won’t be able to cherish your present and see the other blessing in your life. If you cannot get over thinking that you need him in your life, you’re only making your life harder than it has to be. Don’t cling onto the past so tightly until you lose sight of what you have now. Don’t love someone to the point of hating yourself. Don’t go back to what had hurt you so many times.

You're the one

You're the one I wouldn't mind losing sleep for. You're the one I will never get tired talking to. You're the one who constantly crosses my mind throughout the day. You're the only one who can make me smile with just your presence. You're the only one who can influence my mood in many ways you can imagine. You're the only one who can make me happy, sad, angry, and emotional. Everything you do affects me. You're the only one I would love to spend an entire day with. There's just something about you that I can't fully explain into words but I hope you know that you're the only one. It's you. It's always been you. Because at the end of the day, you're the only one I want to keep for the rest of my life.

Sometimes it’s better to move on

Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot... Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’ re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not u...