Couple Goals

She's a girl. Sometimes, she makes a big deal out of little situations. Sometimes, she overreacts to the little things. Sometimes, she assumes the worst when things aren't well for her. Sometimes, she gets more emotional than she should be getting. Sometimes, she's more sensitive to certain things than she's supposed to be. Sometimes, she's gullible enough to believe everything she hears. Sometime s, she's too stubborn to think that she's the one who's wrong. Sometimes, she's too hormonal to think logically and with reason. Sometimes, she's nice enough to tolerate being treated like shit. Sometimes, she's heartless enough to not be considerate of anyone else's feelings. Sometimes, she forgives those who don't deserve it. Sometimes, she pushes people who are good to her away. Sometimes, she starts liking people who aren't good for her. Yeah, she's complicated. How she is at times doesn't make sense. But, she's a girl...

If someone wants to talk to you, they will. But it just sucks when they don't, especially when it's the person you want to talk to.  Have you ever had that moment where you've sent someone a text message and then you just leave it on that screen, waiting for the text bubbles to pop up as you wait for their reply, but it doesn't happen? Or have you ever had a moment where you just kept checking yo ur phone to see if they responded yet, but they still haven't and eventually, you see that your message was "Read at ______" and it kind of makes you sad? Despite that, you're still hopeful you'll hear back from them because they might be busy, so you wait a little longer. At this point, you're checking to see if they're currently active on Facebook or not, if they've posted a picture of IG of what they're doing, or if they've updated their Snapchat showing everyone their whereabouts. Then the worst part happens, where you see they'...

After the years have passed, it all disappears. This is what some couples fail to see. After how many years, the spark will go. The reasons why you loved the other person will be unknown. The butterflies in your stomach will soon disappear. You will forget why you liked that person in the first place. You’ll start to see all the wrong and the ugly you chose to look blindly in your beginnings. Now, going home to each other’s arms is not as exciting to look forward to as before. Cuddling and those exchange of sweet words become rare and all the fightings will take over. Sex will become less and less. You’ll be shocked that one day, those nights and hours you spend in sex will now be spent in silence and arguments. You’d rather cover your partner up rather than take their clothes off. Appreciation goes less and less too. You have to accept that. This is the sad reality of  long term relationships . You become familiar with each other rather than staying “ in love ” with...

It's not always about the sweet kisses or romantic gestures. It's about how you treat each other when times are the toughest that will determine how long your relationship will last. Do you raise your voices when you two are at an argument? Does he curse and disrespect you when you do something wrong? It's these things that will tear both of you apart. Pay attention to your partner on how they treat you when you have fights and when things aren't going well. Because love isn't always rainbows and butterflies. If you and your partner can treat each other right and with respect during arguments, you'll be able to withstand the challenges that break most relationships.

Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting instead of actually talking. Phone calls become arguments, feelings became subliminal messages, and sex became so easy. The word "love" is so often thrown out there and used out of context, insecurities became a way of thinking, jealousy became a habit, and trust is hard to come by in this day and age. There's a missing link betwe en couples nowadays and that is having a real, genuine communication where both parties understand each other's wants and needs. They have respect for each other's boundaries and have their own limitations. They back up their words with their actions and never make promises they can't keep. It's especially hard to find that love today because so many people are looking for temporary fixes but aren't willing to commit but despite that, never allow yourself to follow that trend. Save yourself from heartbreak and don't fall in love too quickly as soon some...

It’s alright to miss him and normal to feel the way you’re feeling. After all, you did spend a fair amount of time together. There were happy times and maybe for a period of time, he tried his hardest to give you what you wanted. Maybe there was a time; you thought you would be happy with him. But you have to accept that whatever went down between you and him, it should stay in the past where it  belongs. If you persist on reaching out to him, you’ll only delay your own healing process and reopen your old wounds. If you refuse to let go of the past, you won’t be able to cherish your present and see the other blessing in your life. If you cannot get over thinking that you need him in your life, you’re only making your life harder than it has to be. Don’t cling onto the past so tightly until you lose sight of what you have now. Don’t love someone to the point of hating yourself. Don’t go back to what had hurt you so many times.

You're the one I wouldn't mind losing sleep for. You're the one I will never get tired talking to. You're the one who constantly crosses my mind throughout the day. You're the only one who can make me smile with just your presence. You're the only one who can influence my mood in many ways you can imagine. You're the only one who can make me happy, sad, angry, and emotional. Everything you do affects me. You're the only one I would love to spend an entire day with. There's just something about you that I can't fully explain into words but I hope you know that you're the only one. It's you. It's always been you. Because at the end of the day, you're the only one I want to keep for the rest of my life.

Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot... Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’ re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not u...

Unfortunately, love doesn’t always give you the happy ending that you wanted in the end. Sometimes, you could be madly in love with someone and still know in your heart that, that person could never give you the kind of affection and effort you know you deserve. One of the hardest things to accept in life is knowing that sometimes you were only meant to make the other person better for the next person. It doesn’t mean that something was necessarily wrong with you in particular, it just means that they didn’t have the tools to help maintain a healthy and happy relationship with you like you had wanted. You might have had every intention to stay with this person forever, you may even had plans in the future with them, and you probably thought that you’ve found the love of your life, but you have to understand that sometimes that is the only reason why you cross paths with certain people. You and that person were meant to be together yes, but you weren’t meant to stay together because...

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY: 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him with peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements So what's so hard about that? HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY: It's really not too difficult but... To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate WITHOUT FORG...

I’m going to love you. I’m going to love you in your weakest moments to your strongest ones. I’m going to love you when you’re happy and I’m going to still love you the most when you’re sad. Don’t you understand? I’m here, and I’m not going anywhere. I want to love you, each and every piece of you. I want you with your imperfections as much as I want you for you. And I’m always going to want you, I’m always going to be here loving you with everything together with your imperfections.

Couples who break up and get back together all of the time may be dysfunctional, may be unhealthy, may be toxic, but there's also something beautiful and genuine about it. They will always be drawn to each other and they will always have that damaged, but unbreakable connection. It won't always be happy, it won't always be exciting, and it won't always be easy, but that's okay because the pain's only a reminder that you truly care. It also shows how strong they are and how they're willing to fight for one another because a real relationship is two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other. Sometimes, you have to walk away to realize what you're leaving behind. Sometimes, you have to let go in order to remember why you held on for so long. Sometimes, you have to lose someone so you can find their worth and value again. There will days where you won't deserve each other, there will times where you'll hate each other, and there will be m...

He who left is always the one who caused the pain. It’s always in that way. It’s always the one who left is the rogue in the story. The one who didn’t try good enough, the one who muddled up, the one who is not worthy of love. Why? ‘Cause he left her broken, unwanted and miserable. When she fought hard, she even went out of her comfort zone just to make him stay. Just to make things be as they were again; for her alone to be whole. But did we ever consider the feeling of the villain? Did we even think he is just one of us; wanting to be loved by someone until his heart reaches the golden years? Did we? The one who left is not always the one who causes the wound, who makes things troubled, who makes things completely incomplete. Sometimes, he is the one who experienced the 3AM anxiety, the one who is crestfallen and wretched. Sometimes, he is also the one who asks himself, “Was I not enough?” The one who left is not always the one who chose to give up first just to taste a blissful of...

It's better to have nobody, than to have someone who's half there or doesn't want to be there. It's better to feel alone, than to be with someone and still feel alone or feel like you'd rather be alone. It's better to depend on no one, than to depend on someone who always ends up disappointing you or failing to meet your expectations. It's better to not have anyone to care about, than to care about someone who enjoys hurting you and causing you pain. It's better to not be close to anyone, than to feel attached to someone you feel so distant at the same time. It's better to be sad by yourself, than to be with someone who makes you even more miserable. It's better to know what you want on you own, than to be with someone who does nothing but confuse you and makes you doubt things. It's better to be happy with yourself, than to place your happiness in someone who takes it for granted. It's better to It's better to love yourself, than t...

Dear wife, We both rejoice when you told me you were pregnant But since day one when God blessed you womb with a baby, I noticed your body started going through vigorous changes - THANK YOU While i was out with your friends, you were at home feeling sick, spitting and vomiting While i complain about you getting lazy, our baby was busy creating room inside you and growing - THANK YOU I watched how your favourite food became your enemy as you started to crave for oddly meals, you changed your diet and you started to add weight - THANK YOU You lost your shape because of our baby, you lost part of your beauty as your stomach started coming out. Your clothes became small as my belly grows bigger. You got worried about the stretch marks - THANK YOU And one day you called me to watch our baby kick inside you! It was unbelievable!! Right there, I vowed to myself that YOU WILL FOREVER BE MY QUEEN - THANK YOU I did not know how strong you are until when I saw you in labour, you laid down your ...

You don't have to buy me expensive things or take me out to dinner every weekend. I don't need to be showered with luxury. I just want the little things. Little things that matter to me like rubbing my back, brushing my hair, or just you randomly kissing my cheek and forehead. I want to receive random I love you messages from you right out of the blue and saying you already miss me even after we just got out together. Things like brushing my hair off my face or tweeting about me. Or posting a picture of us on Instagram or making sure I go home safe. It really doesn't take a lot to make me happy because all I want is you and you alone. That's all I care about. I want the little things because they infinitely become more valuable when I share it with you.

She isn't the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking. She tends to overreact and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She'll be needy for your attention. She wants to literally take up all of your time and she'll require a lot of reassurance. She isn't capable of fully trusting you. She doesn't know when to stop fighting with you even if she's wrong. She has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you're close to hurting her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you'll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you'll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won't want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you...