Couple Goals

1. Try new things together. This keeps things exciting by exploring new ideas as a couple and introducing something new into the relationship . 2. Always make time for each other no matter what. Both of you will have added responsibilities and priorities as time passes, but never ever forget to put each other on top of the priority list. 3. Don't break your partner's trust. Lying is what kills relationships because once a person's trust is broken, it will never be the same again. Always tell the truth to your partner even if you think it will hurt. It's better to be honest than to make her believe in your lies. 4. Make them feel wanted. You'll get used to each other especially after you've been together for a few years, but that doesn't mean you should stop treating your partner like they're not special anymore. Treat them like the first time you got together. Show them that they are still a huge part of your life. Don't be complacent and...

You can`t take it anymore. Life’s getting boring, you fight over everything, your relationship has lost its spark, and you can’t look each other in the eye without feeling regret. Many marriages and relationships get to this place eventually. According to recent surveys, one of every two American couples gets a divorce. This means you only have a 50 percent chance at making your relationship work , no matter how well it began. The only way you can turn things around is by making some changes in how you interact. According to experts, these are the top eight tips that, if followed, will give your relationship a fresh breath of air. I’m not married, but I’ve applied these tips in my romantic relationship, and it’s gotten a lot stronger as a result. 1. Understand that there are usually underlying issues behind every fight. Most of my past arguments with my girlfriend weren’t about money, but they usually happened when I was struggling financially because I was feeling b...

It’s when you push each other to become better individuals. It’s when you become so selfless with one another that other people start calling you “crazy” and “weird”. It’s when you live in your own little world, your own safe haven, where both of you are safe and happy with one another. Love is a struggle in all aspects. It’s a struggle to attain, maintain, and move on from it should it ever end. Then again, it’s true when they say that nothing in this life that’s worth having ever comes easy. You have to be willing to work hard for what you want, and work even harder to keep it in your possession. For a lot of us in life, all we ever crave for is love. It’s not too difficult to see why. Love is essentially what makes our world go around. Love is what a lot of us stay alive for. Without the prospect of love, a lot of us would not want to go on living. Love is the driving force that binds all of humanity together, but yes, it can be a struggle to find. So how do you know if you’v...

I'm very much aware that they're many individuals out there who feel it's normal to have sexual relations in a relationship, and I'm likewise mindful that they're additionally individuals out there who need to respect God in their connections, individuals who will defer moment satisfaction since they cherish God and will comply with his oath. I've assembled a couple of aides that could enable you to keep up your sexual virtue in your relationship. Imagine a scenario in which you as of now bargained. Don't worry about it, this is for you as well. Ensure you're both in agreement: No other point will be applicable if your accomplice isn't on an indistinguishable page from you. You will be astounded the things you discover when you make inquiries. Try not to accept anything in a relationship. It isn't simply enough on the off chance that they're christian, do they truly cherish Jesus? Do they have an individual association with Him? ...

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

When it comes to love, the goal should be to share the best parts of yourself with the person you have the best time with. Be with someone who you can actually laugh with and be silly around. Be with someone who wants to see you grow and develop as a person. Be with someone who will have your back when it's up against the wall. Be with someone who actually cares about you as a person. Someone who you can trust with your heart and not have to worry about them breaking you into  a million pieces. So many people forget the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place. A relationship should be a place that encourages peace and happiness. It should be a place that is free of judgment and allows you the freedom to be who you truly are. It should be a place where you can consistently count on someone's love. It should be your own personal safe haven.

Just because he's already with a new girl, that doesn't mean you should feel like you've been replaced because the truth is it's impossible to replace you. He might think she's prettier than you, he might think her personality is better than yours, and he might think he's more compatible with that girl than he was with you, but don't let him take away how special y ou are in your own way, how unique you are in your own right, and how amazing you are in your own light. You shouldn't look at her and feel ugly, you shouldn't compare yourself to her and feel like you aren't good enough, and you shouldn't see how he loves her and hate yourself for it. He might not be able to see what you're worth, but you should know what you worth. He might not be able to recognize your value, but you should be able to recognize what your value is. He might not be able to realize what you deserve, but you should be able to give yourself what you deserve. Sure...

Sometimes, you have to let people go because they're toxic for you. Sometimes, you have to let people go because they mean you no good. Sometimes, you have to let people go to sacrifice the temporary happiness that people will give you in order to chase an unconditional happiness that only you can provide for yourself. Sometimes, you have let people go because you 've forgotten what your worth is and you have to regain a sense of self. Sometimes, you have to let people go because you've lost your individuality and you need to search for your independence. Sometimes, you have to let people go because all they do is take from you and leave you feeling empty and uneasy. Sometimes, you have to let people go because while you're learning yourself again and seeking fulfillment, they're unapologetically draining you and holding you back from feeling whole. Sometimes, you have to let people go because there's no growth in staying where you got your heart broken. Sometim...

Don’t ever push a loyal girl to the point where she’ll no longer give a fuck about you.  Because it takes a lot for a girl to give a fuck about you so it’s kind of difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck when she’s invested so much of herself into someone. But keep in mind, just because it’s difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck, doesn’t mean it isn’t possible. Every girl has a limit on how  much she can take and most of the time, you can go over that limit and she’ll still love you too much to leave you, but if you push her far enough, then she’ll just drop you and completely cut you off and once that happens, it will be extremely hard for her to start caring again. So be careful how you treat her & don’t take those chances she gives you for granted. Read 40 best  Relationship Quotes  It isn’t easy for her to do it. She doesn’t want to leave you because she loves you with all of her heart, but it’s just gotten to the point where she cannot take it...

And now that you've lost her, I hope you know what you've lost. I hope you know that she didn't choose to leave, because you're the one who held the door for her. I hope you know that she didn't want to be distant, because you're the one who pushed her away. I hope you know that she didn't ask for arguments, because you're the one who picked fights. I hope you know that she didn't like being jealo us, because you're the one who acknowledged other girls. I hope you know that she didn't mean to give up on you, because you're the one who couldn't change for the better. I hope you know that she didn't let you go on her own, because you're the one who gave her every reason to quit holding on. I hope you know that she didn't plan on moving on from you, because you're the one who showed her there's no happiness in staying. I hope you know that she didn't force herself to stop loving you, because you're the one ...

I’m letting go of every butterfly that I felt every time your name popped up on my phone.  I’m letting go of every sensation that I felt every time I heard your voice. I’m letting go of these multitude of feelings that only you can stir within me because they are overwhelming. I’m letting go of every hope in my soul. I’m letting go of that blind faith. I’m letting go of  the idea of us. I’m letting go of every daydream. I’m letting go of the future that I envisioned with you. I’m letting go of every song that reminds me of you. I’m letting go of every composed poem that starts and ends with you. I’m letting go of the tear-stained photographs. I’m letting go of the memories. I’m letting go of the timid smiles and soft hellos. I’m letting go the sweet good mornings and good nights. I’m letting go every stealthy glances. I’m letting go of the shy moments. I’m letting go of every 11:11 wish. I’m letting go of these never-ending thoughts at 2 AM. I’m letting go of the sleeples...

Always go after her. Even when she's mad. Even when she's sad. Even when she hates your freaking guts. Even when she wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Even when she wants her space. Even when she's irritated with you. Even when she doesn't want to talk. Even when she doesn't want to see you. Even when she pushes you away. Even when she has thoughts about leaving you. Even when she feels lik e punching you in the face. Even when she feels like kicking you in the balls. Even when she's being a bitch. Even when she's being distant. Even when she's being stubborn. Even when she's being heartless. She just needs to see that you are willing to be with her when she's at her worst, that you are able to handle her bad side, that you are strong enough to not give up on her. Fi you want to read more articles like this read Relationship Goals 

Before you walk into my life, you need to know something about me. You need to know that I'm a very insecure person and I get too emotional at times. I am everything but perfect. I have difficulty trusting people because of how I've been treated in the past. I tend to overthink and that's because I care. I care too much because I don't wanna lose the people that mean so much to me. I cry over the  simplest of things but that's because I genuinely appreciate even the slightest bit of effort. What I'm trying to say is I carry this baggage within me and I just want you to understand that there will be times that it'll be very difficult to stick with me. But God I hope that you stay because I'm the kind of person who will remain honest, loyal, and faithful no matter what happens. Loving you with all my heart is my way of saying thank you for sticking with me despite how hard it may be. For reading more articles like this visit  Relationship Goals   If you w...

You may be wondering why things didn’t workout though you know that you did everything. You may be thinking that it’s all your fault though you just did what you knew was right. You may be puzzled by how things went so uncontrollable. You keep on asking yourself what you have done wrong. You keep on overthinking, you keep on blaming yourself. With all the confusions, I want to tell you that there  is nothing wrong with you because you did that in the name of love. There’s nothing wrong with you. You just have to accept the fact that some things are not meant to last forever. Some things are just temporary. Some people are meant to come to your life but not meant to stay forever. Some people are meant to meet but not meant to be together. That’s true but it should not be the reason why you will be afraid to fall in love again and again. It’s ok to love so much. So much that you allow yourself to break your own rules. That’s normal. Even the most powerful people can be slaves ...

Who else is going to love you like she does? Who else is going to deal with you like she can? Who else is going to understand you like she could? Who else is going to go out of her way for you like she would? Who else is going to be there for you like she is? Who else is going to take care of you like she has? Who else is goi ng to forgive you for mistakes most girls would leave you for? Who else is going to get over arguments you cause that most girls would hold a grudge with you for? Who else is going to be able to look past the flaws that would drive most girls away? Who else is going to be able to handle the temper you have which would scare most girls off to the point where they’d want nothing to do with you? Who else is going to be able to tolerate how much of an asshole you can be when you want to be? Who else is going to be able to accept the kind of lifestyle you choose to live? Who else is going to be as loyal as she is towards you in a generation of open  relationshi...

She's a girl. Sometimes, she makes a big deal out of little situations. Sometimes, she overreacts to the little things. Sometimes, she assumes the worst when things aren't well for her. Sometimes, she gets more emotional than she should be getting. Sometimes, she's more sensitive to certain things than she's supposed to be. Sometimes, she's gullible enough to believe everything she hears. Sometime s, she's too stubborn to think that she's the one who's wrong. Sometimes, she's too hormonal to think logically and with reason. Sometimes, she's nice enough to tolerate being treated like shit. Sometimes, she's heartless enough to not be considerate of anyone else's feelings. Sometimes, she forgives those who don't deserve it. Sometimes, she pushes people who are good to her away. Sometimes, she starts liking people who aren't good for her. Yeah, she's complicated. How she is at times doesn't make sense. But, she's a girl...

If someone wants to talk to you, they will. But it just sucks when they don't, especially when it's the person you want to talk to.  Have you ever had that moment where you've sent someone a text message and then you just leave it on that screen, waiting for the text bubbles to pop up as you wait for their reply, but it doesn't happen? Or have you ever had a moment where you just kept checking yo ur phone to see if they responded yet, but they still haven't and eventually, you see that your message was "Read at ______" and it kind of makes you sad? Despite that, you're still hopeful you'll hear back from them because they might be busy, so you wait a little longer. At this point, you're checking to see if they're currently active on Facebook or not, if they've posted a picture of IG of what they're doing, or if they've updated their Snapchat showing everyone their whereabouts. Then the worst part happens, where you see they'...

After the years have passed, it all disappears. This is what some couples fail to see. After how many years, the spark will go. The reasons why you loved the other person will be unknown. The butterflies in your stomach will soon disappear. You will forget why you liked that person in the first place. You’ll start to see all the wrong and the ugly you chose to look blindly in your beginnings. Now, going home to each other’s arms is not as exciting to look forward to as before. Cuddling and those exchange of sweet words become rare and all the fightings will take over. Sex will become less and less. You’ll be shocked that one day, those nights and hours you spend in sex will now be spent in silence and arguments. You’d rather cover your partner up rather than take their clothes off. Appreciation goes less and less too. You have to accept that. This is the sad reality of  long term relationships . You become familiar with each other rather than staying “ in love ” with...

It's not always about the sweet kisses or romantic gestures. It's about how you treat each other when times are the toughest that will determine how long your relationship will last. Do you raise your voices when you two are at an argument? Does he curse and disrespect you when you do something wrong? It's these things that will tear both of you apart. Pay attention to your partner on how they treat you when you have fights and when things aren't going well. Because love isn't always rainbows and butterflies. If you and your partner can treat each other right and with respect during arguments, you'll be able to withstand the challenges that break most relationships.

Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting instead of actually talking. Phone calls become arguments, feelings became subliminal messages, and sex became so easy. The word "love" is so often thrown out there and used out of context, insecurities became a way of thinking, jealousy became a habit, and trust is hard to come by in this day and age. There's a missing link betwe en couples nowadays and that is having a real, genuine communication where both parties understand each other's wants and needs. They have respect for each other's boundaries and have their own limitations. They back up their words with their actions and never make promises they can't keep. It's especially hard to find that love today because so many people are looking for temporary fixes but aren't willing to commit but despite that, never allow yourself to follow that trend. Save yourself from heartbreak and don't fall in love too quickly as soon some...