Couple Goals

‪I used to fear long distance, I used to think it’s the best way to lose someone you love and I used to think it’s hell on earth because you get to live every moment away from that person.‬ ‪But I’d rather live away from you than live without you. I’d rather settle for facetime and skype instead of not talking to you at all.‬ ‪Because I realized that distance was never the problem, it was always the person. The person who was afraid to do it because it means it will limit their possibilities, the person who didn’t want to commit to calling or visiting often and the person who used distance as an excuse to get out of commitment altogether.‬ ‪But there so many ways now to make long distance a little easier and so many ways to know and love a person even if they live in another continent. At the end of the day, you still hear their voice every day, you still see their face every night, you still get to be a part of their daily life and you can still lean on them when things get...

Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there until my last tear drop falls Not with the one who says he won't hurt me but with the one who will say sorry after hurting me Not with the one who says he will love me forever but with the one who will embrace lifetime with me Not with the one who promises to carry my burdens but with the one who will hold my hand and walk with me.  Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there unti...

I want to find the person who makes me feel like I found the piece of myself I never knew was missing. I want the nerves and all the good vibes associated with falling for someone new, and when I find that person I have so much love I want to give to him. I won't be hesitant, I won't try to be someone I'm not and I won't try to impress him. I'll just be me, because if he's the right person that will be enough. Once I find that person I want to give him all the love in my heart, despite any prior heartache I've felt. Because I want to give the right person everything I have in me, through the good and the bad. I'll love you with all my heart and make sure you know you're the only one I care about. I'll make you feel safe and secure around me, like when we're together the world can't touch us. I'll always keep your promises and won't wager your trust. I want you to know you can always count on me to be there. I can always promis...

I wasn't happy where I was, but I was happy knowing you were here too. But that's the thing, you wernt mine to love anymore but you were still the one thing keeping me happy here. Let's face it, it's been nearly 2 years since you ended things with me. The first months after the break up were nothing but rough, who knew I had a heart until than. From the drunken crying to the be gging of getting back together to just ending up in my bed alone. I watched you move on numerous times and somewhat part of me felt happy for you. I think my biggest mistake was denying my feelings for you and happily accepting being friends and wanting to be that perfect "mate" to you. Who was I kidding. It made me love you more. But at the same time it made me loose value of myself. From being the girl who saw sex as being special to one night stands with you that actually meant the world to me but nothing to you. But that's how it was, if I was going to keep you that's how...

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

When it comes to love, the goal should be to share the best parts of yourself with the person you have the best time with. Be with someone who you can actually laugh with and be silly around. Be with someone who wants to see you grow and develop as a person. Be with someone who will have your back when it's up against the wall. Be with someone who actually cares about you as a person. Someone who you can trust with your heart and not have to worry about them breaking you into  a million pieces. So many people forget the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place. A relationship should be a place that encourages peace and happiness. It should be a place that is free of judgment and allows you the freedom to be who you truly are. It should be a place where you can consistently count on someone's love. It should be your own personal safe haven.

They say understanding a woman is the hardest thing, it is confusing, it can seem frustrating, it is challenging. We all want the woman of our dreams, but we refuse to go through the challenges that will make the love worthwhile. Trust me, love is not about fancy dates, social media uploads, sensual intimacy and all the good 'stuff'. The walls around her were not built in a day. There are stories, she can't tell anyone, there were nights, she cried and hoped with all her heart to survive. You know what, she always looked for her 'forever', but life always dismissed her plans. She wants to dream to be happy again, she wants to lose all her inhibitions and just love one guy, who will pick her, choose her and love her. You may not be her first, but I can promise you, if you have the courage to be her last, she will show you, what true love is. You will wake up everyday with a feeling that, I have somebody, who will never leave me. She is not hard to get, because yo...

Just because he's already with a new girl, that doesn't mean you should feel like you've been replaced because the truth is it's impossible to replace you. He might think she's prettier than you, he might think her personality is better than yours, and he might think he's more compatible with that girl than he was with you, but don't let him take away how special y ou are in your own way, how unique you are in your own right, and how amazing you are in your own light. You shouldn't look at her and feel ugly, you shouldn't compare yourself to her and feel like you aren't good enough, and you shouldn't see how he loves her and hate yourself for it. He might not be able to see what you're worth, but you should know what you worth. He might not be able to recognize your value, but you should be able to recognize what your value is. He might not be able to realize what you deserve, but you should be able to give yourself what you deserve. Sure...

Sometimes, you have to let people go because they're toxic for you. Sometimes, you have to let people go because they mean you no good. Sometimes, you have to let people go to sacrifice the temporary happiness that people will give you in order to chase an unconditional happiness that only you can provide for yourself. Sometimes, you have let people go because you 've forgotten what your worth is and you have to regain a sense of self. Sometimes, you have to let people go because you've lost your individuality and you need to search for your independence. Sometimes, you have to let people go because all they do is take from you and leave you feeling empty and uneasy. Sometimes, you have to let people go because while you're learning yourself again and seeking fulfillment, they're unapologetically draining you and holding you back from feeling whole. Sometimes, you have to let people go because there's no growth in staying where you got your heart broken. Sometim...

Don’t ever push a loyal girl to the point where she’ll no longer give a fuck about you.  Because it takes a lot for a girl to give a fuck about you so it’s kind of difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck when she’s invested so much of herself into someone. But keep in mind, just because it’s difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck, doesn’t mean it isn’t possible. Every girl has a limit on how  much she can take and most of the time, you can go over that limit and she’ll still love you too much to leave you, but if you push her far enough, then she’ll just drop you and completely cut you off and once that happens, it will be extremely hard for her to start caring again. So be careful how you treat her & don’t take those chances she gives you for granted. Read 40 best  Relationship Quotes  It isn’t easy for her to do it. She doesn’t want to leave you because she loves you with all of her heart, but it’s just gotten to the point where she cannot take it...

And now that you've lost her, I hope you know what you've lost. I hope you know that she didn't choose to leave, because you're the one who held the door for her. I hope you know that she didn't want to be distant, because you're the one who pushed her away. I hope you know that she didn't ask for arguments, because you're the one who picked fights. I hope you know that she didn't like being jealo us, because you're the one who acknowledged other girls. I hope you know that she didn't mean to give up on you, because you're the one who couldn't change for the better. I hope you know that she didn't let you go on her own, because you're the one who gave her every reason to quit holding on. I hope you know that she didn't plan on moving on from you, because you're the one who showed her there's no happiness in staying. I hope you know that she didn't force herself to stop loving you, because you're the one ...

I’m letting go of every butterfly that I felt every time your name popped up on my phone.  I’m letting go of every sensation that I felt every time I heard your voice. I’m letting go of these multitude of feelings that only you can stir within me because they are overwhelming. I’m letting go of every hope in my soul. I’m letting go of that blind faith. I’m letting go of  the idea of us. I’m letting go of every daydream. I’m letting go of the future that I envisioned with you. I’m letting go of every song that reminds me of you. I’m letting go of every composed poem that starts and ends with you. I’m letting go of the tear-stained photographs. I’m letting go of the memories. I’m letting go of the timid smiles and soft hellos. I’m letting go the sweet good mornings and good nights. I’m letting go every stealthy glances. I’m letting go of the shy moments. I’m letting go of every 11:11 wish. I’m letting go of these never-ending thoughts at 2 AM. I’m letting go of the sleeples...

Always go after her. Even when she's mad. Even when she's sad. Even when she hates your freaking guts. Even when she wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Even when she wants her space. Even when she's irritated with you. Even when she doesn't want to talk. Even when she doesn't want to see you. Even when she pushes you away. Even when she has thoughts about leaving you. Even when she feels lik e punching you in the face. Even when she feels like kicking you in the balls. Even when she's being a bitch. Even when she's being distant. Even when she's being stubborn. Even when she's being heartless. She just needs to see that you are willing to be with her when she's at her worst, that you are able to handle her bad side, that you are strong enough to not give up on her. Fi you want to read more articles like this read Relationship Goals 

Before you walk into my life, you need to know something about me. You need to know that I'm a very insecure person and I get too emotional at times. I am everything but perfect. I have difficulty trusting people because of how I've been treated in the past. I tend to overthink and that's because I care. I care too much because I don't wanna lose the people that mean so much to me. I cry over the  simplest of things but that's because I genuinely appreciate even the slightest bit of effort. What I'm trying to say is I carry this baggage within me and I just want you to understand that there will be times that it'll be very difficult to stick with me. But God I hope that you stay because I'm the kind of person who will remain honest, loyal, and faithful no matter what happens. Loving you with all my heart is my way of saying thank you for sticking with me despite how hard it may be. For reading more articles like this visit  Relationship Goals   If you w...

You may be wondering why things didn’t workout though you know that you did everything. You may be thinking that it’s all your fault though you just did what you knew was right. You may be puzzled by how things went so uncontrollable. You keep on asking yourself what you have done wrong. You keep on overthinking, you keep on blaming yourself. With all the confusions, I want to tell you that there  is nothing wrong with you because you did that in the name of love. There’s nothing wrong with you. You just have to accept the fact that some things are not meant to last forever. Some things are just temporary. Some people are meant to come to your life but not meant to stay forever. Some people are meant to meet but not meant to be together. That’s true but it should not be the reason why you will be afraid to fall in love again and again. It’s ok to love so much. So much that you allow yourself to break your own rules. That’s normal. Even the most powerful people can be slaves ...

Who else is going to love you like she does? Who else is going to deal with you like she can? Who else is going to understand you like she could? Who else is going to go out of her way for you like she would? Who else is going to be there for you like she is? Who else is going to take care of you like she has? Who else is goi ng to forgive you for mistakes most girls would leave you for? Who else is going to get over arguments you cause that most girls would hold a grudge with you for? Who else is going to be able to look past the flaws that would drive most girls away? Who else is going to be able to handle the temper you have which would scare most girls off to the point where they’d want nothing to do with you? Who else is going to be able to tolerate how much of an asshole you can be when you want to be? Who else is going to be able to accept the kind of lifestyle you choose to live? Who else is going to be as loyal as she is towards you in a generation of open  relationshi...