Couple Goals

Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there until my last tear drop falls Not with the one who says he won't hurt me but with the one who will say sorry after hurting me Not with the one who says he will love me forever but with the one who will embrace lifetime with me Not with the one who promises to carry my burdens but with the one who will hold my hand and walk with me.  Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there unti...

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

Sometimes, you have to let people go because they're toxic for you. Sometimes, you have to let people go because they mean you no good. Sometimes, you have to let people go to sacrifice the temporary happiness that people will give you in order to chase an unconditional happiness that only you can provide for yourself. Sometimes, you have let people go because you 've forgotten what your worth is and you have to regain a sense of self. Sometimes, you have to let people go because you've lost your individuality and you need to search for your independence. Sometimes, you have to let people go because all they do is take from you and leave you feeling empty and uneasy. Sometimes, you have to let people go because while you're learning yourself again and seeking fulfillment, they're unapologetically draining you and holding you back from feeling whole. Sometimes, you have to let people go because there's no growth in staying where you got your heart broken. Sometim...

Don’t ever push a loyal girl to the point where she’ll no longer give a fuck about you.  Because it takes a lot for a girl to give a fuck about you so it’s kind of difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck when she’s invested so much of herself into someone. But keep in mind, just because it’s difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck, doesn’t mean it isn’t possible. Every girl has a limit on how  much she can take and most of the time, you can go over that limit and she’ll still love you too much to leave you, but if you push her far enough, then she’ll just drop you and completely cut you off and once that happens, it will be extremely hard for her to start caring again. So be careful how you treat her & don’t take those chances she gives you for granted. Read 40 best  Relationship Quotes  It isn’t easy for her to do it. She doesn’t want to leave you because she loves you with all of her heart, but it’s just gotten to the point where she cannot take it...

And now that you've lost her, I hope you know what you've lost. I hope you know that she didn't choose to leave, because you're the one who held the door for her. I hope you know that she didn't want to be distant, because you're the one who pushed her away. I hope you know that she didn't ask for arguments, because you're the one who picked fights. I hope you know that she didn't like being jealo us, because you're the one who acknowledged other girls. I hope you know that she didn't mean to give up on you, because you're the one who couldn't change for the better. I hope you know that she didn't let you go on her own, because you're the one who gave her every reason to quit holding on. I hope you know that she didn't plan on moving on from you, because you're the one who showed her there's no happiness in staying. I hope you know that she didn't force herself to stop loving you, because you're the one ...

I’m letting go of every butterfly that I felt every time your name popped up on my phone.  I’m letting go of every sensation that I felt every time I heard your voice. I’m letting go of these multitude of feelings that only you can stir within me because they are overwhelming. I’m letting go of every hope in my soul. I’m letting go of that blind faith. I’m letting go of  the idea of us. I’m letting go of every daydream. I’m letting go of the future that I envisioned with you. I’m letting go of every song that reminds me of you. I’m letting go of every composed poem that starts and ends with you. I’m letting go of the tear-stained photographs. I’m letting go of the memories. I’m letting go of the timid smiles and soft hellos. I’m letting go the sweet good mornings and good nights. I’m letting go every stealthy glances. I’m letting go of the shy moments. I’m letting go of every 11:11 wish. I’m letting go of these never-ending thoughts at 2 AM. I’m letting go of the sleeples...

Always go after her. Even when she's mad. Even when she's sad. Even when she hates your freaking guts. Even when she wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Even when she wants her space. Even when she's irritated with you. Even when she doesn't want to talk. Even when she doesn't want to see you. Even when she pushes you away. Even when she has thoughts about leaving you. Even when she feels lik e punching you in the face. Even when she feels like kicking you in the balls. Even when she's being a bitch. Even when she's being distant. Even when she's being stubborn. Even when she's being heartless. She just needs to see that you are willing to be with her when she's at her worst, that you are able to handle her bad side, that you are strong enough to not give up on her. Fi you want to read more articles like this read Relationship Goals 

You may be wondering why things didn’t workout though you know that you did everything. You may be thinking that it’s all your fault though you just did what you knew was right. You may be puzzled by how things went so uncontrollable. You keep on asking yourself what you have done wrong. You keep on overthinking, you keep on blaming yourself. With all the confusions, I want to tell you that there  is nothing wrong with you because you did that in the name of love. There’s nothing wrong with you. You just have to accept the fact that some things are not meant to last forever. Some things are just temporary. Some people are meant to come to your life but not meant to stay forever. Some people are meant to meet but not meant to be together. That’s true but it should not be the reason why you will be afraid to fall in love again and again. It’s ok to love so much. So much that you allow yourself to break your own rules. That’s normal. Even the most powerful people can be slaves ...

Who else is going to love you like she does? Who else is going to deal with you like she can? Who else is going to understand you like she could? Who else is going to go out of her way for you like she would? Who else is going to be there for you like she is? Who else is going to take care of you like she has? Who else is goi ng to forgive you for mistakes most girls would leave you for? Who else is going to get over arguments you cause that most girls would hold a grudge with you for? Who else is going to be able to look past the flaws that would drive most girls away? Who else is going to be able to handle the temper you have which would scare most girls off to the point where they’d want nothing to do with you? Who else is going to be able to tolerate how much of an asshole you can be when you want to be? Who else is going to be able to accept the kind of lifestyle you choose to live? Who else is going to be as loyal as she is towards you in a generation of open  relationshi...

She's a girl. Sometimes, she makes a big deal out of little situations. Sometimes, she overreacts to the little things. Sometimes, she assumes the worst when things aren't well for her. Sometimes, she gets more emotional than she should be getting. Sometimes, she's more sensitive to certain things than she's supposed to be. Sometimes, she's gullible enough to believe everything she hears. Sometime s, she's too stubborn to think that she's the one who's wrong. Sometimes, she's too hormonal to think logically and with reason. Sometimes, she's nice enough to tolerate being treated like shit. Sometimes, she's heartless enough to not be considerate of anyone else's feelings. Sometimes, she forgives those who don't deserve it. Sometimes, she pushes people who are good to her away. Sometimes, she starts liking people who aren't good for her. Yeah, she's complicated. How she is at times doesn't make sense. But, she's a girl...

If someone wants to talk to you, they will. But it just sucks when they don't, especially when it's the person you want to talk to.  Have you ever had that moment where you've sent someone a text message and then you just leave it on that screen, waiting for the text bubbles to pop up as you wait for their reply, but it doesn't happen? Or have you ever had a moment where you just kept checking yo ur phone to see if they responded yet, but they still haven't and eventually, you see that your message was "Read at ______" and it kind of makes you sad? Despite that, you're still hopeful you'll hear back from them because they might be busy, so you wait a little longer. At this point, you're checking to see if they're currently active on Facebook or not, if they've posted a picture of IG of what they're doing, or if they've updated their Snapchat showing everyone their whereabouts. Then the worst part happens, where you see they'...

After the years have passed, it all disappears. This is what some couples fail to see. After how many years, the spark will go. The reasons why you loved the other person will be unknown. The butterflies in your stomach will soon disappear. You will forget why you liked that person in the first place. You’ll start to see all the wrong and the ugly you chose to look blindly in your beginnings. Now, going home to each other’s arms is not as exciting to look forward to as before. Cuddling and those exchange of sweet words become rare and all the fightings will take over. Sex will become less and less. You’ll be shocked that one day, those nights and hours you spend in sex will now be spent in silence and arguments. You’d rather cover your partner up rather than take their clothes off. Appreciation goes less and less too. You have to accept that. This is the sad reality of  long term relationships . You become familiar with each other rather than staying “ in love ” with...

Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting instead of actually talking. Phone calls become arguments, feelings became subliminal messages, and sex became so easy. The word "love" is so often thrown out there and used out of context, insecurities became a way of thinking, jealousy became a habit, and trust is hard to come by in this day and age. There's a missing link betwe en couples nowadays and that is having a real, genuine communication where both parties understand each other's wants and needs. They have respect for each other's boundaries and have their own limitations. They back up their words with their actions and never make promises they can't keep. It's especially hard to find that love today because so many people are looking for temporary fixes but aren't willing to commit but despite that, never allow yourself to follow that trend. Save yourself from heartbreak and don't fall in love too quickly as soon some...

It’s alright to miss him and normal to feel the way you’re feeling. After all, you did spend a fair amount of time together. There were happy times and maybe for a period of time, he tried his hardest to give you what you wanted. Maybe there was a time; you thought you would be happy with him. But you have to accept that whatever went down between you and him, it should stay in the past where it  belongs. If you persist on reaching out to him, you’ll only delay your own healing process and reopen your old wounds. If you refuse to let go of the past, you won’t be able to cherish your present and see the other blessing in your life. If you cannot get over thinking that you need him in your life, you’re only making your life harder than it has to be. Don’t cling onto the past so tightly until you lose sight of what you have now. Don’t love someone to the point of hating yourself. Don’t go back to what had hurt you so many times.

You're the one I wouldn't mind losing sleep for. You're the one I will never get tired talking to. You're the one who constantly crosses my mind throughout the day. You're the only one who can make me smile with just your presence. You're the only one who can influence my mood in many ways you can imagine. You're the only one who can make me happy, sad, angry, and emotional. Everything you do affects me. You're the only one I would love to spend an entire day with. There's just something about you that I can't fully explain into words but I hope you know that you're the only one. It's you. It's always been you. Because at the end of the day, you're the only one I want to keep for the rest of my life.

Unfortunately, love doesn’t always give you the happy ending that you wanted in the end. Sometimes, you could be madly in love with someone and still know in your heart that, that person could never give you the kind of affection and effort you know you deserve. One of the hardest things to accept in life is knowing that sometimes you were only meant to make the other person better for the next person. It doesn’t mean that something was necessarily wrong with you in particular, it just means that they didn’t have the tools to help maintain a healthy and happy relationship with you like you had wanted. You might have had every intention to stay with this person forever, you may even had plans in the future with them, and you probably thought that you’ve found the love of your life, but you have to understand that sometimes that is the only reason why you cross paths with certain people. You and that person were meant to be together yes, but you weren’t meant to stay together because...

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY: 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him with peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements So what's so hard about that? HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY: It's really not too difficult but... To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate WITHOUT FORG...

I’m going to love you. I’m going to love you in your weakest moments to your strongest ones. I’m going to love you when you’re happy and I’m going to still love you the most when you’re sad. Don’t you understand? I’m here, and I’m not going anywhere. I want to love you, each and every piece of you. I want you with your imperfections as much as I want you for you. And I’m always going to want you, I’m always going to be here loving you with everything together with your imperfections.

Couples who break up and get back together all of the time may be dysfunctional, may be unhealthy, may be toxic, but there's also something beautiful and genuine about it. They will always be drawn to each other and they will always have that damaged, but unbreakable connection. It won't always be happy, it won't always be exciting, and it won't always be easy, but that's okay because the pain's only a reminder that you truly care. It also shows how strong they are and how they're willing to fight for one another because a real relationship is two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other. Sometimes, you have to walk away to realize what you're leaving behind. Sometimes, you have to let go in order to remember why you held on for so long. Sometimes, you have to lose someone so you can find their worth and value again. There will days where you won't deserve each other, there will times where you'll hate each other, and there will be m...

He who left is always the one who caused the pain. It’s always in that way. It’s always the one who left is the rogue in the story. The one who didn’t try good enough, the one who muddled up, the one who is not worthy of love. Why? ‘Cause he left her broken, unwanted and miserable. When she fought hard, she even went out of her comfort zone just to make him stay. Just to make things be as they were again; for her alone to be whole. But did we ever consider the feeling of the villain? Did we even think he is just one of us; wanting to be loved by someone until his heart reaches the golden years? Did we? The one who left is not always the one who causes the wound, who makes things troubled, who makes things completely incomplete. Sometimes, he is the one who experienced the 3AM anxiety, the one who is crestfallen and wretched. Sometimes, he is also the one who asks himself, “Was I not enough?” The one who left is not always the one who chose to give up first just to taste a blissful of...