Couple Goals

You didn’t love them as much as you loved the idea of them, and you certainly didn’t love them as much as you loved other things. Signs you didn’t — or don’t — love them that much: If your focus is the list of stuff you want to do with a significant other You always wanted “someone to travel with.” You always wanted to eat at that restaurant. You always wanted to try acroyoga, or take cute Christmas card photos, or snuggle. You fell for them because “you picked up on a few key traits and let your mind fill in all of the blanks.” They’re just a stand-in for the shit you want to do. It’s fine to want to do things with them — awesome! — but if your focus is their role in doing these things with you, it’s a bad sign. If you “just want someone to love” Or you just want a husband, spouse, or parent to your future children. This is the exact same point as above. If you don’t find joy in sharing the things they love Not every day, but  sometimes . If i...

“You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed forever.” – #RelationshipGoals “Affection is when you see someone’s strengths; love is when you accept someone’s flaws.” – #RelationshipGoals “My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and the courage to accept the love in return.” –  #RelationshipGoals “Since the invention of the kiss, there have been only five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind.” –  #RelationshipGoals “We loved with a love that was more than love.” –  #relationshipgoals “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – #RelationshipGoals “You and I, it’s as though we have been taught to kiss in heaven and sent down to earth together, to see if we know what we were taught.” –  #RelationshipGoa...

Don't be desperate for a guy to feel the same way about you. Don't be desperate for a guy to make 're showing him that you're the one that needs him and he doesn't have to need you. How do you expect him to respect you when you're always letting him walk all over you? How do you expect him to take you seriously when you're always allowing him to put you down? How do you expect him to admire you when you give him control over feelings? No guy is worth losing your self-worth for no matter how you feel about him, and you shouldn't be okay with yourself for that. Most importantly, don't be so desperate that you'd give a guy enough power over you to determine your happiness because your happiness is only yours to keep. If he can't see that you're worth it, then he ain't worth it and you should find comfort in knowing that you are worth it to someone else out there right now. Don't be desperate for a guy's love, especially the wrong...

Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there until my last tear drop falls Not with the one who says he won't hurt me but with the one who will say sorry after hurting me Not with the one who says he will love me forever but with the one who will embrace lifetime with me Not with the one who promises to carry my burdens but with the one who will hold my hand and walk with me.  Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there unti...

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

And now that you've lost her, I hope you know what you've lost. I hope you know that she didn't choose to leave, because you're the one who held the door for her. I hope you know that she didn't want to be distant, because you're the one who pushed her away. I hope you know that she didn't ask for arguments, because you're the one who picked fights. I hope you know that she didn't like being jealo us, because you're the one who acknowledged other girls. I hope you know that she didn't mean to give up on you, because you're the one who couldn't change for the better. I hope you know that she didn't let you go on her own, because you're the one who gave her every reason to quit holding on. I hope you know that she didn't plan on moving on from you, because you're the one who showed her there's no happiness in staying. I hope you know that she didn't force herself to stop loving you, because you're the one ...

Always go after her. Even when she's mad. Even when she's sad. Even when she hates your freaking guts. Even when she wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Even when she wants her space. Even when she's irritated with you. Even when she doesn't want to talk. Even when she doesn't want to see you. Even when she pushes you away. Even when she has thoughts about leaving you. Even when she feels lik e punching you in the face. Even when she feels like kicking you in the balls. Even when she's being a bitch. Even when she's being distant. Even when she's being stubborn. Even when she's being heartless. She just needs to see that you are willing to be with her when she's at her worst, that you are able to handle her bad side, that you are strong enough to not give up on her. Fi you want to read more articles like this read Relationship Goals 

Before you walk into my life, you need to know something about me. You need to know that I'm a very insecure person and I get too emotional at times. I am everything but perfect. I have difficulty trusting people because of how I've been treated in the past. I tend to overthink and that's because I care. I care too much because I don't wanna lose the people that mean so much to me. I cry over the  simplest of things but that's because I genuinely appreciate even the slightest bit of effort. What I'm trying to say is I carry this baggage within me and I just want you to understand that there will be times that it'll be very difficult to stick with me. But God I hope that you stay because I'm the kind of person who will remain honest, loyal, and faithful no matter what happens. Loving you with all my heart is my way of saying thank you for sticking with me despite how hard it may be. For reading more articles like this visit  Relationship Goals   If you w...

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY: 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him with peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements So what's so hard about that? HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY: It's really not too difficult but... To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate WITHOUT FORG...

He who left is always the one who caused the pain. It’s always in that way. It’s always the one who left is the rogue in the story. The one who didn’t try good enough, the one who muddled up, the one who is not worthy of love. Why? ‘Cause he left her broken, unwanted and miserable. When she fought hard, she even went out of her comfort zone just to make him stay. Just to make things be as they were again; for her alone to be whole. But did we ever consider the feeling of the villain? Did we even think he is just one of us; wanting to be loved by someone until his heart reaches the golden years? Did we? The one who left is not always the one who causes the wound, who makes things troubled, who makes things completely incomplete. Sometimes, he is the one who experienced the 3AM anxiety, the one who is crestfallen and wretched. Sometimes, he is also the one who asks himself, “Was I not enough?” The one who left is not always the one who chose to give up first just to taste a blissful of...

You don't have to buy me expensive things or take me out to dinner every weekend. I don't need to be showered with luxury. I just want the little things. Little things that matter to me like rubbing my back, brushing my hair, or just you randomly kissing my cheek and forehead. I want to receive random I love you messages from you right out of the blue and saying you already miss me even after we just got out together. Things like brushing my hair off my face or tweeting about me. Or posting a picture of us on Instagram or making sure I go home safe. It really doesn't take a lot to make me happy because all I want is you and you alone. That's all I care about. I want the little things because they infinitely become more valuable when I share it with you.

She isn't the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking. She tends to overreact and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She'll be needy for your attention. She wants to literally take up all of your time and she'll require a lot of reassurance. She isn't capable of fully trusting you. She doesn't know when to stop fighting with you even if she's wrong. She has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you're close to hurting her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you'll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you'll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won't want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you...