She isn't the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking. She tends to overreact and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She'll be needy for your attention. She wants to literally take up all of your time and she'll require a lot of reassurance. She isn't capable of fully trusting you. She doesn't know when to stop fighting with you even if she's wrong. She has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you're close to hurting her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you'll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you'll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won't want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you'll have to be strong enough to handle because she needs someone who's patient enough to understand why she is who she is today. It's not gonna be an easy relationship with her. But if she is in love with you, then she can promise that you'll be loved with such passion and intensity that you'll forget what life felt like before she came along because she'll always be there to put your heart back together after breaking it. Maybe she's not the best at being loved, but she's pretty amazing at loving.
I always tell other people that whenever you're given an opportunity to be with someone, it's that you should always give it your best shot and love that person with all your heart. In this day and age where true, genuine second chances are rare, sometimes in life you are given only one shot. One chance to be with someone you love and how you make the most out of it is ultimately up to you. We never really know how long we'll remain in someone's life because just like how sea sons change and just like how leaves fall, people's feelings change over time as well. So while you are still together, take advantage of the time that's been given to you. Live in the moment and stop thinking about the future too much because what matters is right here, right now. Kiss each other as hard as you can. Take each other's hand and run away at the beach. Hug each other so damn tight while you still can. Let them know how you really feel about them because one day, y...

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