They say understanding a woman is the hardest thing, it is confusing, it can seem frustrating, it is challenging. We all want the woman of our dreams, but we refuse to go through the challenges that will make the love worthwhile. Trust me, love is not about fancy dates, social media uploads, sensual intimacy and all the good 'stuff'.
The walls around her were not built in a day. There are stories, she can't tell anyone, there were nights, she cried and hoped with all her heart to survive. You know what, she always looked for her 'forever', but life always dismissed her plans. She wants to dream to be happy again, she wants to lose all her inhibitions and just love one guy, who will pick her, choose her and love her. You may not be her first, but I can promise you, if you have the courage to be her last, she will show you, what true love is. You will wake up everyday with a feeling that, I have somebody, who will never leave me.
She is not hard to get, because you can't get her. You can't win her. You can't conquer her heart. You need to stay with her to make her believe that time does heal. You need to focus on her struggles, make them your own. She is constantly fighting with the world, she is fighting with the role, the society gave her. You need to stay forever to write your story together.
You can't control her thoughts, her actions or her fate. But you can hold her hand and smile at her and say - "Babe, you are beautiful". You don't have to take her on fancy dates every weekend to show 'how great you are'. You need to kiss her forehead and assure her that, she is doing great. Be consistent, when things are falling apart for her. Be there, show up, make her believe, that she too can have a fairy tale love story.
It is not about breaking her walls, it is about getting into her world, through the tiny pore, from where the light goes in. And one day, when she pulls you into her heart, you will see the world in a different light. You two are not afraid to love, to live. And be happy together.
She is different, that's why she will make your life different from the millions of others, who are searching for love in the wrong places. She is everything you ever wanted, you just need to go through the fire, to be her sun.
I always tell other people that whenever you're given an opportunity to be with someone, it's that you should always give it your best shot and love that person with all your heart. In this day and age where true, genuine second chances are rare, sometimes in life you are given only one shot. One chance to be with someone you love and how you make the most out of it is ultimately up to you. We never really know how long we'll remain in someone's life because just like how sea sons change and just like how leaves fall, people's feelings change over time as well. So while you are still together, take advantage of the time that's been given to you. Live in the moment and stop thinking about the future too much because what matters is right here, right now. Kiss each other as hard as you can. Take each other's hand and run away at the beach. Hug each other so damn tight while you still can. Let them know how you really feel about them because one day, y...

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