Couple Goals

We’re often taught it’s impossible to be happy without a partner. Everywhere you look, you’ll see articles about how to conduct yourself on dates, why you need romantic love and what you can do to find it. If you’re single, it can feel like you simply have no right to enjoy yourself if you don’t have a significant other. So, is it possible to learn how to enjoy being single after a breakup, or after a long time spent yearning for a partner? Absolutely! It just requires some shifts in your underlying beliefs, and a willingness to emerge from your comfort zone now and again. It can be challenging due to those social messages we all receive the importance of romance, but once you start to thrive as a single person you may never look back. We’ll explore how to enjoy being single, whether it’s in the short term or a more permanent lifestyle. 6 Ways To Enjoy Being Single The first thing you need to do is believe that you can and will create a happy future as a single person. Wi...

You can`t take it anymore. Life’s getting boring, you fight over everything, your relationship has lost its spark, and you can’t look each other in the eye without feeling regret. Many marriages and relationships get to this place eventually. According to recent surveys, one of every two American couples gets a divorce. This means you only have a 50 percent chance at making your relationship work , no matter how well it began. The only way you can turn things around is by making some changes in how you interact. According to experts, these are the top eight tips that, if followed, will give your relationship a fresh breath of air. I’m not married, but I’ve applied these tips in my romantic relationship, and it’s gotten a lot stronger as a result. 1. Understand that there are usually underlying issues behind every fight. Most of my past arguments with my girlfriend weren’t about money, but they usually happened when I was struggling financially because I was feeling b...

1. Do not keep on repeating things that already happened in the past. He has learned from them. He has become mature. Don’t bring up issues in the past.  2. Surprise him. It is not only boys who need to have efforts to make the relationship work. Girls should do the same.  3. Understand him that he is not perfect. He gets tired. He gets stressed. He gets pissed off. He has lapses but he is trying his best.  4. Lower your pride as well. It is not always all the time that he needs to adjust with you. You do your part as well to make the relationship work.  5. Understand that boys will have time for their friends as well. Do not guard him or do not be too strict when he plans to go out with friends. Give him your trust and everything shall follow.  6. Ask him on how his day went. You can give him a massage and make him feel that it was just a bad day and it gets better.  7. Make sure that you are loyal to him and you are not playing with any oth...

It’s when you push each other to become better individuals. It’s when you become so selfless with one another that other people start calling you “crazy” and “weird”. It’s when you live in your own little world, your own safe haven, where both of you are safe and happy with one another. Love is a struggle in all aspects. It’s a struggle to attain, maintain, and move on from it should it ever end. Then again, it’s true when they say that nothing in this life that’s worth having ever comes easy. You have to be willing to work hard for what you want, and work even harder to keep it in your possession. For a lot of us in life, all we ever crave for is love. It’s not too difficult to see why. Love is essentially what makes our world go around. Love is what a lot of us stay alive for. Without the prospect of love, a lot of us would not want to go on living. Love is the driving force that binds all of humanity together, but yes, it can be a struggle to find. So how do you know if you’v...

If you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn’t really have to act as if you were available. If you were truly in love with a person, you wouldn’t have to be shady with how you hold your phone while messaging someone. You wouldn’t want to have to hide your phones screen from your partner’s gaze because you know they wouldn’t like what they would end up reading. If you were truly in love with a person, you wouldn’t have to use codenames for the people on your contacts’ list. If you were truly in love with a person, you wouldn’t have to constantly be clearing out your message logs on a daily basis because you’re afraid someone might end up snooping around in places where they aren’t supposed to be looking. If you were truly in love with someone, your phone wouldn’t be ringing in the middle of the night; you wouldn’t have to rushing out of the room to make sure that your partner doesn’t hear your phone conversations. If you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn’t have to be ac...

1. He’s smart While some of us are naturally brainier than others, a new study from the Hanken School of Economics in Finland suggests that the smarter the man, the less likely he is to be unfaithful. According to the research, more intelligent men are more likely to get married and stay married.  So if you’re worried your boyfriend might be too brainy for you, a) don’t be intimidated because intelligence isn’t everything, and b) know that you may have a guy who’s more likely to be faithful on your hands.  2. He makes you laugh Finding someone you can have a laugh with is crucial - even if everyone else rolls their eyes at his dad jokes, if they crack you up, that’s all that matters. And a study has shown that men are more likely to have “mating success” if they have a GSOH.  3. He actively supports your career A study found that husbands were a deciding factor in two-thirds of women’s decisions to quit their jobs, often because they thought it was t...

There are certain characteristics of relationships that prove the old maxim of “when you know, you know.” These following traits should be a sign of the connection in your relationship and the effort your girlfriend puts into being the best. After all, you deserve it, as does she. In the ideal relationship, these traits should be an effort at all but merely the result of two people just being themselves. 1. She laughs at you and you laugh at her. They say laughter is the best medicine and in a way, it’s true. There are proven effects to laughing: ease of pain, decrease in depression, and chemical reactions in your brain that have a positive outcome. It’s also personal. To get to know someone’s laugh is intimate and infectious. It’s like a constant inside joke between the two of you and it also makes you feel really good to be able to make her laugh. In rom-coms there is always the typical tall, good-looking guy who seems like a good choice, but in the...