Couple Goals

‪I used to fear long distance, I used to think it’s the best way to lose someone you love and I used to think it’s hell on earth because you get to live every moment away from that person.‬ ‪But I’d rather live away from you than live without you. I’d rather settle for facetime and skype instead of not talking to you at all.‬ ‪Because I realized that distance was never the problem, it was always the person. The person who was afraid to do it because it means it will limit their possibilities, the person who didn’t want to commit to calling or visiting often and the person who used distance as an excuse to get out of commitment altogether.‬ ‪But there so many ways now to make long distance a little easier and so many ways to know and love a person even if they live in another continent. At the end of the day, you still hear their voice every day, you still see their face every night, you still get to be a part of their daily life and you can still lean on them when things get...

Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there until my last tear drop falls Not with the one who says he won't hurt me but with the one who will say sorry after hurting me Not with the one who says he will love me forever but with the one who will embrace lifetime with me Not with the one who promises to carry my burdens but with the one who will hold my hand and walk with me.  Won't be with the one who can promise me the whole perfect world but with the one who will turn my world upside down. Not with the one who brings me chocolates but with the one who can shower me flowers and put butterflies in my tummy Not with the one who promises to wipe my tears away but with the one who will be there unti...

I want to find the person who makes me feel like I found the piece of myself I never knew was missing. I want the nerves and all the good vibes associated with falling for someone new, and when I find that person I have so much love I want to give to him. I won't be hesitant, I won't try to be someone I'm not and I won't try to impress him. I'll just be me, because if he's the right person that will be enough. Once I find that person I want to give him all the love in my heart, despite any prior heartache I've felt. Because I want to give the right person everything I have in me, through the good and the bad. I'll love you with all my heart and make sure you know you're the only one I care about. I'll make you feel safe and secure around me, like when we're together the world can't touch us. I'll always keep your promises and won't wager your trust. I want you to know you can always count on me to be there. I can always promis...

I wasn't happy where I was, but I was happy knowing you were here too. But that's the thing, you wernt mine to love anymore but you were still the one thing keeping me happy here. Let's face it, it's been nearly 2 years since you ended things with me. The first months after the break up were nothing but rough, who knew I had a heart until than. From the drunken crying to the be gging of getting back together to just ending up in my bed alone. I watched you move on numerous times and somewhat part of me felt happy for you. I think my biggest mistake was denying my feelings for you and happily accepting being friends and wanting to be that perfect "mate" to you. Who was I kidding. It made me love you more. But at the same time it made me loose value of myself. From being the girl who saw sex as being special to one night stands with you that actually meant the world to me but nothing to you. But that's how it was, if I was going to keep you that's how...

You love someone with actions: you give them things to make their life easier, better, more full, happier. When they fall asleep on your shoulder, you shift to make them more comfortable, to see them stir in their sleep like a small animal—you smile at how sweet they look, you marvel at how corny you feel and how okay with it you are.  You love someone by doing nothing, but not moving at all, not even an inch. When their head rests on your shoulder, when they lay in your lap, collapsed—you remain still, unchanging. Steadfast. There.  You love someone with “I’m there for you”-s made real. You love someone by answering, even in the smallest ways: “okay, see you soon.”  You love someone all tacit and silent, without replies and responses, with nothing at all—you love someone even when you have nothing. You say that this is all you have, you love them with honesty and respect, enough to tell them when you can’t love them, enough to tell them when you’re spent, exhaus...

When it comes to love, the goal should be to share the best parts of yourself with the person you have the best time with. Be with someone who you can actually laugh with and be silly around. Be with someone who wants to see you grow and develop as a person. Be with someone who will have your back when it's up against the wall. Be with someone who actually cares about you as a person. Someone who you can trust with your heart and not have to worry about them breaking you into  a million pieces. So many people forget the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place. A relationship should be a place that encourages peace and happiness. It should be a place that is free of judgment and allows you the freedom to be who you truly are. It should be a place where you can consistently count on someone's love. It should be your own personal safe haven.

They say understanding a woman is the hardest thing, it is confusing, it can seem frustrating, it is challenging. We all want the woman of our dreams, but we refuse to go through the challenges that will make the love worthwhile. Trust me, love is not about fancy dates, social media uploads, sensual intimacy and all the good 'stuff'. The walls around her were not built in a day. There are stories, she can't tell anyone, there were nights, she cried and hoped with all her heart to survive. You know what, she always looked for her 'forever', but life always dismissed her plans. She wants to dream to be happy again, she wants to lose all her inhibitions and just love one guy, who will pick her, choose her and love her. You may not be her first, but I can promise you, if you have the courage to be her last, she will show you, what true love is. You will wake up everyday with a feeling that, I have somebody, who will never leave me. She is not hard to get, because yo...