Couple Goals

She's a girl. Sometimes, she makes a big deal out of little situations. Sometimes, she overreacts to the little things. Sometimes, she assumes the worst when things aren't well for her. Sometimes, she gets more emotional than she should be getting. Sometimes, she's more sensitive to certain things than she's supposed to be. Sometimes, she's gullible enough to believe everything she hears. Sometime s, she's too stubborn to think that she's the one who's wrong. Sometimes, she's too hormonal to think logically and with reason. Sometimes, she's nice enough to tolerate being treated like shit. Sometimes, she's heartless enough to not be considerate of anyone else's feelings. Sometimes, she forgives those who don't deserve it. Sometimes, she pushes people who are good to her away. Sometimes, she starts liking people who aren't good for her. Yeah, she's complicated. How she is at times doesn't make sense. But, she's a girl...

If someone wants to talk to you, they will. But it just sucks when they don't, especially when it's the person you want to talk to.  Have you ever had that moment where you've sent someone a text message and then you just leave it on that screen, waiting for the text bubbles to pop up as you wait for their reply, but it doesn't happen? Or have you ever had a moment where you just kept checking yo ur phone to see if they responded yet, but they still haven't and eventually, you see that your message was "Read at ______" and it kind of makes you sad? Despite that, you're still hopeful you'll hear back from them because they might be busy, so you wait a little longer. At this point, you're checking to see if they're currently active on Facebook or not, if they've posted a picture of IG of what they're doing, or if they've updated their Snapchat showing everyone their whereabouts. Then the worst part happens, where you see they'...

After the years have passed, it all disappears. This is what some couples fail to see. After how many years, the spark will go. The reasons why you loved the other person will be unknown. The butterflies in your stomach will soon disappear. You will forget why you liked that person in the first place. You’ll start to see all the wrong and the ugly you chose to look blindly in your beginnings. Now, going home to each other’s arms is not as exciting to look forward to as before. Cuddling and those exchange of sweet words become rare and all the fightings will take over. Sex will become less and less. You’ll be shocked that one day, those nights and hours you spend in sex will now be spent in silence and arguments. You’d rather cover your partner up rather than take their clothes off. Appreciation goes less and less too. You have to accept that. This is the sad reality of  long term relationships . You become familiar with each other rather than staying “ in love ” with...

It's not always about the sweet kisses or romantic gestures. It's about how you treat each other when times are the toughest that will determine how long your relationship will last. Do you raise your voices when you two are at an argument? Does he curse and disrespect you when you do something wrong? It's these things that will tear both of you apart. Pay attention to your partner on how they treat you when you have fights and when things aren't going well. Because love isn't always rainbows and butterflies. If you and your partner can treat each other right and with respect during arguments, you'll be able to withstand the challenges that break most relationships.

Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting instead of actually talking. Phone calls become arguments, feelings became subliminal messages, and sex became so easy. The word "love" is so often thrown out there and used out of context, insecurities became a way of thinking, jealousy became a habit, and trust is hard to come by in this day and age. There's a missing link betwe en couples nowadays and that is having a real, genuine communication where both parties understand each other's wants and needs. They have respect for each other's boundaries and have their own limitations. They back up their words with their actions and never make promises they can't keep. It's especially hard to find that love today because so many people are looking for temporary fixes but aren't willing to commit but despite that, never allow yourself to follow that trend. Save yourself from heartbreak and don't fall in love too quickly as soon some...

It’s alright to miss him and normal to feel the way you’re feeling. After all, you did spend a fair amount of time together. There were happy times and maybe for a period of time, he tried his hardest to give you what you wanted. Maybe there was a time; you thought you would be happy with him. But you have to accept that whatever went down between you and him, it should stay in the past where it  belongs. If you persist on reaching out to him, you’ll only delay your own healing process and reopen your old wounds. If you refuse to let go of the past, you won’t be able to cherish your present and see the other blessing in your life. If you cannot get over thinking that you need him in your life, you’re only making your life harder than it has to be. Don’t cling onto the past so tightly until you lose sight of what you have now. Don’t love someone to the point of hating yourself. Don’t go back to what had hurt you so many times.

You're the one I wouldn't mind losing sleep for. You're the one I will never get tired talking to. You're the one who constantly crosses my mind throughout the day. You're the only one who can make me smile with just your presence. You're the only one who can influence my mood in many ways you can imagine. You're the only one who can make me happy, sad, angry, and emotional. Everything you do affects me. You're the only one I would love to spend an entire day with. There's just something about you that I can't fully explain into words but I hope you know that you're the only one. It's you. It's always been you. Because at the end of the day, you're the only one I want to keep for the rest of my life.